I have come to realize that there are many facets to a woman. Becoming a woman means learning how and when to use each one.
For example: Yes, it's beautiful to be confident and intelligent, but the ART is in how those attributes are displayed. If done wrongly, you can come off as egotistical and disdainful.
There's a certain swag that a woman who "knows what she knows" has. She has nothing to prove to anyone but herself. You can tell the difference between a young lady BECOMING a woman and a FULL-FLEDGED woman. One is running around imposing her opinions and ideals on anyone who will listen. The other is llustrating her beliefs with her actions.
Toni (from the sitcom Girlfriends) or Clair Huxtable?
WHICH ONE ARE YOU?